.
Feedback

The Empty Chair at the Holiday Dinner Table

Remembering the lives of those Pacifica residents who recently passed away this holiday season. Share your words of condolences to their loved ones.

Over the past few months, many families in Pacifica have lost loved ones — some old and others young — making this holiday season particularly challenging as they face for the first time celebrating Christmas and the New Year without their family member or friend there to fill his or her role in their annual traditions.

For those who have lost someone recently, thinking about the empty chair at the holiday table may intensify grief in all its complex manifestations: sadness, anger, resentment, and maybe even guilt about the loss and, yes, joy and sweetness and gratitude that the person was in your life.

Honoring the memory of those who have recently died as part of the holiday season encourages remembrance and healing.

Send your condolences to those in Pacifica who are experiencing a loss this holiday season by writing in the comments section below.

If we missed someone who passed away this Fall, please also let us know in the comments.

In memory of this holiday season:

Gary D. Blaine, 54, passed away on Dec. 7, 2012

Mike Nevin, 69, passed away on Dec. 1, 2012

Ray Kim Roberson, 52, passed away on Nov. 27, 2012

Elayne Roberta Medina, 76, passed away on Nov. 24, 2012

Gail Marie (Gehres) Simons, 85, Nov. 23, 2012

Lester Austin Danner, 79, passed away on Nov. 19, 2012

James Gilchrist, 88, passed away on Nov. 15, 2012

Robert (Bob) Machold passed away on Nov. 13, 2012

Ernest H. Nimnicht, Jr. passed away Nov. 10, 2012

Steven James Brown, 55, passed away on Nov. 9, 2012

Charles E. Fletcher Jr., 75, passed away on Nov. 8, 2012

Jane Allen Lefferdink, 67, passed away on Nov 6, 2012

Rosalie P. Leavitt, 69, passed away on Nov. 3, 2012

Barbara L. Coffey, 70, passed away on Nov. 2, 2012

Terry Lee Day, 49, passed away on Nov. 2, 2012

Lawrence (Lon) J. Wasco, 86, passed away on Oct. 25, 2012

Dawn Beverly Vinje, 83, passed away on Oct. 21, 2012

Cathy Lynn Beeler Poket Slis, 53, passed away on Oct. 19, 2012

John Elliott, 95, passed on Oct. 18, 2012

Keith Coffey, 24, passed away on Oct. 17, 2012

Ryan Daniel Haynes, 23, passed away on Oct. 14, 2012

Tim Guardino, 49, passed away on Oct. 14, 2012

Joan F. Knack, 85, passed away on Oct. 3, 2012

Gertrude Solvig Aarreberg, 96, passed away on Oct. 1, 2012

Robert N. Ellis Jr., 46, died on Sept. 12, 2012

Ann Marie Miller, 39, passed away on Sept. 3, 2012

Marco Barajas, 14, passed away on Sept. 3, 2012

 

Want to share your opinions with the Pacifica community? Start your own blog here.

Keep up with the latest local news — follow Patch!

Sign up for Pacifica Patch’s daily newsletter
"Like” us on Facebook
"Follow” us on Twitter

 
 

Newsletter & Alerts

Get the best stories each day and important breaking news

Subscribe

Not from Pacifica Patch? Find your Local Patch »

Loading comments ...
Note Article
Just a short thought to get the word out quickly about anything in your neighborhood.
Share something with your neighbors. Write a new post... What's up? Make an announcement, speak your mind, or sell something
Janet Arline Barker May 17, 2013 at 11:18 am
Awesome! Next Tuesday, Thursday or Friday are open. Name a time and place. I used to write 3Read More different columns for San Bruno, Millbrae, and Burlingame Patch. I am ready to write for Pacifica Patch & blog too. Here's my personal blog...I do sporadically. Www.art-Janet.blogspot.com My art studio is at Sanchez Art Center #11
Christa Bigue (Editor) May 17, 2013 at 11:05 am
When can we meet for coffee Janet? Since you're the first one to post in our biz update section youRead More get to have coffee and chat with your local Patch editor! Email me at christa.bigue@patch.com and we'll find a date and place.
Anon. April 14, 2013 at 01:43 am
I can start with the comments on the Theravance drug, fluticasone fluroate - the active moiety inRead More this compound is the same, fluticasone (proprionate) that has been marketed by GSK for the same indication for approximately 25 years. Indeed, that patent is so old, and the drug has such a proven track record for safety and efficacy, that the patent has expired and there are generic versions available. There is also in implicit assumption by the author that the only reason that the FDA will approve medications in a short time span is because they are for 'life-or-limb' or unmet serious medical need. This is just not the case - regulators in many countries, including the FDA in the USA, may give accelerated approval to a product, where the safety and tolerability of a product is equivalent to a similar active agent which has already been approved. I suspect this is the case for fluticasone fluroate - but I am not privy to the details of the regulatory filing. I note that none of the companies mentioned here, nor the FDA, has provided input to this article. The journalism in this article smacks of someone trying to make a name for themselves quickly by scaring uneducated and/or anxious people. The science is just plain flawed.
Pacificat April 12, 2013 at 12:49 pm
Please tell us in what ways it is ill-informed
Anon. April 11, 2013 at 08:22 pm
Ill-informed, sensationalist rubbish.
Deb Wong March 26, 2013 at 06:09 pm
Thanks, Stacie!
Stacie Chan (Editor) March 26, 2013 at 02:51 pm
Absolutely stunning photos, Deb! Thanks for sharing. I really feel like I was there by just perusingRead More your photo gallery.
Donna Fentanes March 26, 2013 at 09:49 am
Thanks, Deb, for the videos. Now we all can take one last ride. :)
Jim Clifford March 25, 2013 at 01:08 pm
Each column gets better. I look for "The Shoe."
Deb Wong March 25, 2013 at 11:19 am
I think many of us can relate! 10 kids, huh? I was the oldest of 9, so sort of understand. MyRead More family grew up in Pacifica, & we rode over the slide every weekend when we went to the HMB airport to tend to my father's airplanes. I drove on it once, during driver's ed in high school, scary! I have an old home movie clip from 1966, going over the slide. Very overexposed, but you can still see parts of the slide in it. More recently, took 2 videos of our drive over the slide, North & south views. Going North: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kb8NKnu9Gvw Going South: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-rlN_g2LeE8